Hello everybody. I am exceptionally worried about writing this blog since it is an incredible subjective sensitive topic, I can just hear Christie telling me to not write it but based on the fact it really is a matter of opinion and I only intend to write about the good stuff I am sure I wont upset or offend anyone so here goes.
My plan for this weeks blog is to tell you about some of the most beautiful people in my life, for anyone that knows me they will be no doubt aware of my forward style of social etiquette and my readiness weather it is wanted or not to give my opinion on peoples looks. Over the years it has got me in to some trouble but predominantly it has brought joy to people. I just enjoy telling people if I think there beautiful, there have been occasions when girls faces have lit up because I have told them there beautiful purely because no one has ever said it before, the happiness I have brought to people gives me a wonderful feeling. I find it extraordinary that more guys don't speak there mind but they don't and that is there choice.
Now for the hard bit, deciding who to write about? I am going to say from the out set that this was a very hard choice that I spent a long time over it and the only reason I did not include more was I didn't want the post being to long so please don't be offended if I didn't write about you.
Right that is the disclaimers and introduction sorted now we can get on with the fun bit. This is not in any particular order so don't bother asking me if it is.
First off I want to start with someone who I did not always see as beautiful, she was one of those girls that one day when you went in to school you just happen to catch her eye and go wow, damn! Carly May Gabler or as is universally agreed our Emma Watson look-a-like has and this is no understatement some of the best eyes in the world. When she looks you in the eye you better grab hold of something because you may find your knees going weak also and now I know I am going to upset some people, she possible has the best hair in the world! She has the most lustrous, long, flowing hair in this ethereal brown, it is stunning to behold and just beckons you to run your hands though it. But don't just go up and do that, ask first!
Second on my list of unimaginable beauty is a girl who when ever pushed for the most attractive girl I would normally say and yes I know I said there was no order or winner to this but I can't help what I have always said. Fern Kenyon-Hamp is with out any shadow of doubt pissing off angels when she walks out her door in the morning. If you asked me to find a criticism about her then I could not find one, Fern is so beautiful I can't find appropriate words that would do her justice, she has an angelic allure. She projects out this enticing, intrinsic, fascinating beauty, I don't no if you would say she was a stereotype beauty, I don't think she is but she has an inherent beauty that is impossible to ignore when she is around. I dare you to try! You will find your self being drawn to looking at her and you have to check yourself and remind yourself not to stare. I imagine on many occasions I have failed at this.
Third on this journey of discovery, I have opted for a girl called Louise Clarke. She is relatively knew in my life and I was fortunate to meet her though a friend. I remember walking in to the room and seeing her for the first time and many chemical reactions all got very confused in my head as they tried to get them selves heard by my brain resulting in my blood being a dangerous cocktail of dopamine and testosterone. Also Louise has a bit of a unfair advantage on some other girls because she is exploiting my soft spot. Yes ladies and gentlemen I have a thing for ginger hair, I don't no what it is but it is just so sexy, more sexy then beautiful. She also has a gorgeous little figure which plays havoc with your mind when your trying to talk to her, "Look at her eyes Jaye not her boobs". You have to repeat that sentence in your head over and over again other wise you will fall victim to the most guyish of crimes. Lets face it we have all done it. If anything Louise is proof of how much beauty can make an impression on you if you want it too in a short amount of time.
Forth on the list and perhaps the least obvious one so far is a lovely girl called Louise Cannings but it is for an obvious reasons. Louise has earned her place in this select list because of her hair and eyes. Seriously just go and have a look at some of her photos and prepare for the sheer beauty, her eyes don't mess around with the job of impressing the hell out of you. I honestly wonder if she removed her eyes and replaced them with galaxies because they are that beautiful and entrancing. And then when your limbic system is all ready struggling with the amount of signals your eyes are drawn to the brilliant hair providing a beautiful frame for the gorgeous face and hopelessly impressive eyes. Now you're limbic system is crying for submission. I really am not sure how to end this one apart from I think and I really hope she does not mind me saying this, that she is part of a group of hidden gems, a collection of truly beautiful girls who perhaps get over looked or just not noticed and that is a shame because this beauty is there to be appreciated.
Finally I have saved perhaps the most controversial person for me to comment on to last just because I was arguing with myself over weather to write this but I have decided I am because there is fundamentally nothing wrong with it. Nina Wells as your probably aware was my girlfriend and there for it will be hardly revelatory news that I should find her beautiful but that's the thing, I don't understand myself why she is so gorgeous. There is something about her, it being the lovely shade of green in her eyes, the softness of her skin or the beautiful smile but I can't drill it down to one definable thing. There is just something about her that makes my mind go mad, if anyone can provide a decent summary or explanation to her unreal beauty then please send me it.
I think what I am trying to say guys and girls is that beauty is very much in the eye of the beholder but don't be afraid to tell someone if you feel it. Don't you think the world would be a better, nicer place if we all complemented each other? I just want to make people feel good about them selves and there are countless other people I could have written about like Alex Kimble, Melody Hargreaves, Carly Mcgreevy, Eleanor Revil, Rosie Walsh, Rachel Bate, Rachael Taylor, Rocky A-D, Shelby Anne Margaret, Christine Thomson and you know the list go on.
So please for me everyone reading this send a message to someone you know and just say how beautiful you think they are and then at least we can say we are making a little contribution to making the world a better place.
Happiness through the truth!
Love the Animosity Kid x
Don't listen to anyone who says this is wrong Jaye. I think positivity and self confidence are without a doubt the most important starting block in life. Everyone should stand tall and keep there head up. One must be confident and show there confidence (without arrogance). And, if we can help those people around us who perhaps struggle with this, and give them the self-esteem and self-worth that they truly and categorically deserve, we most certainly should. There is a saying which I believe in more than words can describe to you, a saying which I try to live my life by and try to introduce it to others, and it goes as follows; Sing like no one is listening, Dance like no one is watching, And fear nothing, Because fear itself is the only thing that stops us from succseeding. So, hold your head up high and show people your true beauty, and of course, tell others of there's. Well done Jaye!
ReplyDeleteAnd where was I on this list of beautiful people?
ReplyDeleteAnd more to the point, where was Mike?
WHAT ABOUT POOR MIKE?!!
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ReplyDeleteI got love. I got so much love, love in my heart and this feeling I cant let it go.
ReplyDeleteIf you feel you are unattractive, I would say beauty from the inside out is far more important. At 16, your looks have not fully developed and you may find that you get no attention now but as you get older that may change beyond recognition.
ReplyDeleteBeauty can be a right pain in the arse.
Wow you were right about the naive incompetence bit! You might want to add to that arrogant and sexist too
ReplyDeleteIn response to anonymous (not got the balls to stand up and be counted). I think the stage in development is irrelevant. Beauty like I said is in the eyes of the beholder and a growing plant can be just as beautiful as a fully formed one. This blog focused primarily on making people feel good about there appearance but your right, people are also beautiful on the inside and I hope not to detract from that point.
ReplyDeleteAlso I don't see how I have been naive, incompetent, arrogant and I really can't find any hint of sexism. I have simply tried to to promote people complementing each other and if you have missed that point then I am afraid and sorry to tell you, you have been very naive and incompetent yourself as everyone else has very much got the point of this. :/ I just wish to spread some good feelings and love.
I am anonymous no1 and believe you me Mr O'Farrell-Stevens, I have plenty of balls but I am staying anonymous because I am not one of your 16 year old school friends.
ReplyDeleteI was merely making the point that there are some girls out there who at 15/16 are feeling very insecure about their looks, as I did at that age, but who will blossom into beautiful young women as I did. (and still am)
Blogs like this can damage self-esteem if written without care and thought.
By the way I have plenty of self-esteem, oodles and oodles infact.
I will second what anonymous no 1 says. Beauty comes in many forms, it is not just about hair, body shape and the colour of ones eyes etc. Although i can understand that at your young age you might think that.
ReplyDeleteWhat you will soon learn is that women are more than just 'pretty things'. I find it patronising that you think that by just being told that they are beautiful by your 'oh so wonderful self' a girl would go weak at the knees. I have never met you but as for naive imcompetence i was quoting your profile description- all your own words. From,
Anonymous no 2
Anonymous no1 again-I would just like to add that despite being treated like an ugly duckling at school, I went on to do photographic modelling and was quite successful at it.
ReplyDeleteI chose to stop as I did not like being treated as a pretty face and instead chose to become interested in helping people gain/regain their self-esteem.
Funnily enough, most of my clients are females, who have been told their whole lives by men that being beautiful/slim is the most important thing.
Please, at no point have I said beauty can only come in the form of looks, what I am trying to say is that this particular blog on this occasions deals with looks. I have not said it is the only thing that matters, I'm not trying to get people to ignore other forms of beauty. Women are so much more then a thing to look at, guys as well for that matter, they have incredible personalties to discover as well but like I keep saying this blog deals with physical beauty.
ReplyDeleteAlso if you note I never mention body size one, I mention about a girl who has a nice figure but not because she was skinny small. If you look back though my relationship past your notice I have not been with super skinny girls. It has never appealed to me but that in the case of this blog is irrelevant because this blog is about making boys and girls feel good about themselves regardless of body size. I don't understand your problems, I am only trying to get people to appreciate beauty and that it can come in all different sizes, colours and cultures. And to tell people they are beautiful to help with confidence so if you can find any harm in that then I at that point will except your criticism but until such time I would like you to stop tainting the good intentions of my blog. Thank you
This is a blog about expressing the beauty around us, not defining it as a stereotype :/
ReplyDeleteJaye, I'm being nice now....If you cannot see that mentioning certain girls (I assume in your school year) is not going to possibly hurt other girls, who have poor self image, then you are not the intelligent person I think you are.
ReplyDeleteI have met you and I happen to think you are a decent person and I am only trying to give you an alternative view.
There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who can see things from their point of view. A1
I know that, and I perfectly understand that point of view and I would agree with you had I not said that these where just 5 examples and that there was countless other people I could have said and only didn't because it would have taken so long I didn't.
ReplyDeleteIf I did not mention anyone it was not because I thought they where ugly, I just didn't have the time. And I was very clear this was just my opinion and I hope that everyone has the maturity to realise that. Everyone is beautiful in some way, I am merely putting out one sort of beauty and pointing out 5 examples.
Beauty Gets the attention, personality captures the heart. A1
ReplyDeleteThere is a lovely sentiment and message in what you wrote. You have a lovely way with language too. I say yay for celebrating all types of beauty and telling people how much they are appreciated!x
ReplyDeleteTo the Anonymous people - (i know i am too) BUT
ReplyDeleteJaye is simply expressing the beauty that he sees in these girls, i know him in person and he is not shallow like you make out. He has made me feel very special and he's only ever been a friend, its not only looks where beauty comes from, and you can't deny that the world we live in causes people to think otherwise.
He is just trying to be complimentary to these girls, no need for hate
Personally speaking there is absolutely no hate involved. I like Jaye and I am simply passing on a bit of life experience, of which he can choose to listen to or not.
ReplyDeleteIf he knew who I was, I don't think he would take this as a personal attack on him. A1
As a mum reading this (I am not old, ugly or fat by the way, quite the opposite) I would be very concerned the message you are sending to girls in this blog and I'm afraid you do come over as slightly self obsessed, which I suppose is normal for a boy of your age.
ReplyDeleteHowever if you were my son, I would ask you to take this blog down as it reduces your chances further of finding a decent girlfriend, at least one who is going to last longer than a couple of weeks.
Why should me finding a 'decent' girlfriend be of any concern to you?
ReplyDeleteI understand that with the hundreds of people viewing this blog it is inevitable that there are going to be some critics and people who don't understand or just enjoy being a naive antagonist. The simply fact of the matter is that I am trying to get people to complement and be open about there feelings on beauty. Not lecture or try and get people to only love for insistence a slim figure. I don't care what you find beautiful as long as you tell them.
If you still have a problem with that or our simply to immature to understand then please find another blog to read.
Jaye is the most sexy man in the world <3
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